Forgiveness : (33) " To forgive is to set a prisoner free and discover that the prisoner was you. " - Lewis B. Smedes " I feel like unforgiveness, bitterness and resentment, it blocks the flows of God’s blessings in life. " - Ja Rule " I have a good visual memory. I’m good with faces, but names – I get in trouble a lot; I can’t seem to remember people. People think I’m rude. As a side comment, you know, I’m not being rude: I just kind of blank out. " - Larry Gagosian " Every man should keep a fair-sized cemetery in which to bury the faults of his friends. " - Henry Ward Beecher " Forgiving is love’s toughest work, and love’s biggest risk. " - Lewis B. Smedes " I thought it was beautiful to be able to forgive and give love and to fight only with flowers. So I created the idea of a ‘Souldier,’ which is like an army guy but fights for love. " - Jain " I’ve been praying to God to show me how to forgive myself. Because… maybe… that’s the thing I’ve been searching for. " - Mary J. Blige " I get a little heated when I talk about the past. But I wanted to be clear – I’m not mad at anybody – not anymore. " - Dave Chappelle " Even the gods pardon someone who makes a mistake. " - Saira Banu " Forget: Refuse to dwell; let go and loosen one’s hold, particularly on memory. To forget is an active – not passive – endeavor. " - Clarissa Pinkola Estes