Vernon Howard : (4) " We must become acquainted with our emotional household: we must see our feelings as they actually are, not as we assume they are. This breaks their hypnotic and damaging hold on us. " - Vernon Howard " Your friends will be as careless with your life as they are with their own. " - Vernon Howard " You have succeeded in life when all you really want is only what you really need. " - Vernon Howard " Evil is an attack against human spiritual development and enlightenment. All evil, badness, neurosis – it has one motive and one motive only, which is to destroy – to destroy your chance of arising above yourself. " - Vernon Howard