Sean Hayes : (3) " I’m definitely an actor first, but it’s fun to kind of, you know, push your boundaries and see if you can do things that have scared you a little bit your whole life. " - Sean Hayes " I’m consumed with what I didn’t do. I know I should’ve come out sooner, and I’m sorry for that. " - Sean Hayes " And so, I think when I got to college, you discover who you are and find yourself more than you did before. " - Sean Hayes