Phil Spector : (3) " Love is an obsessive delusion that is cured by marriage. " - Phil Spector " People tell me they idolise me, want to be like me, but I tell them, ‘trust me, you don’t want my life.’ I’ve been a very tortured soul. " - Phil Spector " People tell me they idolise me, want to be like me, but I tell them, ‘trust me, you don’t want my life.’ I’ve been a very tortured soul. " - Phil Spector