Mary J. Blige : (8) " As a kid, I dreamed about being onstage. " - Mary J. Blige " Even if you feel someone has wronged you or owes you something, no one is going to give you anything for free. " - Mary J. Blige " I’ve been a tomboy my whole life. But then you get older, you get married, you soften up. " - Mary J. Blige " I don’t know. Only God knows where the story ends for me, but I know where the story begins. It’s up to us to choose, whether we win or lose and I choose to win. " - Mary J. Blige " I’m my worst critic, and I like the fact that I can listen to myself now and make fun of myself, listen, make changes – ‘Oh, man, that’s messed up. Okay, I need to work on that; I need to work on this.’ " - Mary J. Blige " I’ve been praying to God to show me how to forgive myself. Because… maybe… that’s the thing I’ve been searching for. " - Mary J. Blige " I’m a child of God. God is my mommy, my daddy. That’s the only thing that’ll keep my head up. If I don’t remember who I am in him, I’m done. " - Mary J. Blige " Thank you so much for supporting me from the day I stepped foot into the music industry. It really means something to me to have Maya Angelou speak on my behalf. It also means a lot to have Oprah on my speed dial! " - Mary J. Blige