Lydia Millet : (3) " People who are obsessed amuse me. " - Lydia Millet " Marriage is like the romantic ideal, and yet the trappings around it and the culture about it are really the opposite of that. " - Lydia Millet " I came to understand that a German nudist, in 1984, loved little more than to work on his or her tan. " - Lydia Millet