Lewis B. Smedes : (3) " To forgive is to set a prisoner free and discover that the prisoner was you. " - Lewis B. Smedes " Forgiving is love’s toughest work, and love’s biggest risk. " - Lewis B. Smedes " What is a disloyal act? A person is disloyal if he treats you as a stranger when, in fact, he belongs to you as a friend or partner. Each of us is bound to some special others by the invisible fibers of loyalty. " - Lewis B. Smedes