Iyanla Vanzant : (3) " If you’re not willing to let your partner see your cellulite or know your biggest fears, then you aren’t really ready to share yourself. " - Iyanla Vanzant " I grew up in the Holiness Church, where prayer was an event. " - Iyanla Vanzant " There is a lot of healing going on. Really! More people are vegetarians, more are in the green movement, more of us are tearing down the old paradigms and embracing same-sex marriage, single motherhood, men raising babies. " - Iyanla Vanzant