Erica Mena : (3) " I think what people have to just naturally give me the respect for is the fact that me being a woman and no matter what I’ve done, fault to mistakes or right to wrong, that I’m able to step out and be like, ‘This is who I am and this is who I love to be with. This is what it is, this is my life. I’m on a reality show so you get what you get.’ " - Erica Mena " That’s our role as women when we come into a relationship, to respect and honor your man. " - Erica Mena " I’m a Scorpio, so I call the shots. " - Erica Mena