Desmond Tutu : (4) " Peace comes when you talk to the guy you most hate. And that’s where the courage of a leader comes, because when you sit down with your enemy, you as a leader must already have very considerable confidence from your own constituency. " - Desmond Tutu " If you are neutral in situations of injustice, you have chosen the side of the oppressor. If an elephant has its foot on the tail of a mouse and you say that you are neutral, the mouse will not appreciate your neutrality. " - Desmond Tutu " Oh, 1994, April 27. There won’t be a day like that ever again. I mean, the sky was blue, with a blueness that had never been there before. " - Desmond Tutu " People often speak of God being even-handed. God is not even-handed. God is biased, in favor of the weak, of the despised. " - Desmond Tutu