Carol S. Dweck : (3) " In one world, effort is a bad thing. It, like failure, means you’re not smart or talented. If you were, you wouldn’t need effort. In the other world, effort is what makes you smart or talented. " - Carol S. Dweck " When we praise children for their intelligence, we tell them that this is the name of the game: Look smart; don’t risk making mistakes. " - Carol S. Dweck " We’re finding that many parents endorse a growth mindset, but they still respond to their children’s errors, setbacks or failures as though they’re damaging and harmful. If they show anxiety or overconcern, those kids are going toward a more fixed mindset. " - Carol S. Dweck