Angela Duckworth : (2) " I think the very idea of character, of developing not just grit, but empathy and curiosity, emotional intelligence – you know, the things that I want my own daughters to develop – the idea that we’re going to get there through rewards and punishments seems completely at odds with the idea of character itself. " - Angela Duckworth " Grit and self-control are related, but they’re not the same thing. " - Angela Duckworth